When it comes to a woman’s heart, a woman of God, there’s no greater place a man could be. A woman’s heart is filled with love and joy, life and possibility, faithfulness and an inherent positive energy and spirit that can fuel you to become a better man. The right woman can make greatness shine through you..
As I mature in my understanding of love, so has my understanding of commitment. I understand commitment as something that should be bind with faithfulness and devotion, which grants the ability to be faithful and devoted to your lover. It makes no sense to lay the groundwork of security, respect, transparency and your willingness to love her unconditionally if you don’t intend on staying forever.
Perhaps you’re not ready to commit, and that’s okay, just as long you’re clear and upfront about your intentions are for being in her life. Your honesty could prevent confusion, misinterpretation and heartbreak. But, if so you put forth the time and effort, the prayer and the energy, only to break her heart, then you have a right to vacate her premises asking for nothing back, the right to hold your apology and to not ask for a second chance until you have comprehend what you’ve done. And even when it’s all said and done, there’s still no guarantee that she will take you back, because she let you into a sacred place of her life and you hurt her.
A woman wants to trust you and she wants you to take a seat in her heart, so she can experience love with you. She wants you and her to be an example of God’s blessing, a clear, but not perfect picture of what true love really looks like. She anticipates showing off her testimony, which is you, to her family and close friends. She wants to take pride in who God blessed her with.