How a woman sees herself will have an influence on what kind of man she will accept in her life. You will receive what you reflect.– Melvin Davis
To echo some of the content in my blog series “Signs: What She’s Not Telling You,” I made a statement that women are more emotional than rational. Keeping this statement in mind, I want to take a few minutes to tie this into the topic: A Woman Will Receive What She Reflects.”
Since I am under the belief that women are more emotional than rational, the core of her emotional being has to be strong, if she is to attract a man that will treat her the way she desires to be treated. I believe often times, women, as well as men who do not have the emotional stability to walk in confidence, will get lost in the charm and beauty of another. A woman must see herself as queen, nothing less. She has to walk with confidence if she wants to prevent any man from walking over her.
Most women end up receiving the bad end of the stick in relationships because they think less of their self. Low self-esteem will stop you from looking yourself in the mirror to say “I am beautiful,” and that “I deserve a good man.” Can you remember the last time you done this? Or, when was the first? A woman that lacks self-esteem can’t phantom practicing this exercise because they don’t feel they are worthy of enough to experience true, unconditional love. You have to believe in you if you want God to bless you what you deserve.
The woman that sees herself the way God sees her will never settle for less. Emotional stability, self-confidence and self-assurance is what you prevent you from getting lost in the charm and beauty of another. There’s nothing wrong with feeling a special kind of way when you’re in the presence of someone who makes you feel like you’re the only one in the room, a guy that makes you feel like you’re the best thing that ever happened to him, or vice versa for the guy. However, a woman who knows her worth will not exchange it over for a guy with good looks who will treat her poorly.
How a woman sees herself will attract what she reflects. Low self-esteem will have a guy run all over you. A woman that holds herself to the utmost respect and value will make a guy thinks twice about trying to run over her—that’s if he has a second chance.