When God is at the center of your relationship, you’ll never be the focus.-Melvin Davis
One of the many factors that contribute to the downfall of a relationship iis selfishness.
Its one thing for one person in a relationship to be distant from God. It’s another for both persons to have no real connection to Him. When the foundation of a relationship is set upon a disconnection from God, one or both persons will become selfish. Their wants and needs will dominate the relationship and become the focal point instead of loving each other. You can’t love someone else putting yourself first.
Selfishness has no place in love. And dIstance from God gives birth to selfishness.