When it comes to dating, or crossing paths with a particular love interest, you’re going to encounter people who are going to find everything wrong with you, or come up with excuses for it not to work. If that’s the case, i want you know this:
When people have something negative to say about who you are, whether your style of dress, your personality, where state or part of the city you come from, how you speak, what faith you practice, or whatever it is that’s unique about you, don’t be offended. Yes, we may all have something we need to work on, that could make us a better person. But there are something’s God created in you that wasn’t condition by your environment or how your parents raised you. You had no power of choosing your height, your shape, your skin complexion, the color of your eyes, your lips, or whatever else. You are what God created you to be, and who he has for you, they will appreciate all the beauty God instilled with you, including what we think is imperfect. They will not pass judgment on you–instead they will receive of who you are, and later love who you are.
Remember this the next time someone says something negative about you. You’re going to be everything wrong to the person who’s not the love of your life. So stop trying to win a heart over that’s not yours–ultimately someone who doesn’t see you the same way you see them. God has someone who’s going to appreciate you.